I love books! But I read only a few from the beginning to the end. One of those was “The Betrayal of the Self” from Arno Gruen, a Swiss-German psychoanalyst. A book that I read many years ago in a time that I was in desperate need for a profound soul experience. I definitely recommend this book to everyone interested in the preservation of authenticity. But please be aware that what you will read is the author’s view on the topic.

The reason why I mention this book here is because it made me realise that for some of us being a woman, being born with a pussy, means that there are no allies, no one to help us develop our essential nature. Until the moment of reading this book, I was suffering because many people tend to ignore the fact that girls are born with a pussy. And after reading it, I continued to suffer but then in a different way. It’s not that everyone is deliberately ignoring it. Some people are just unconsciously replicating what has been a norm for a long time. And the norm is that the ones that are born with a pussy should suppress at least the feelings and needs that may arise from that part of the body.

These kinds of rules are very imbued in our collective psyche. Many women are forced to fight for their own autonomy and against many opposing forces. But there are no victims or villains here as our biggest enemies live insides of us. We need to confront our shadows and to conquer our deepest fears. Today, more than ever, a woman needs to be courageous and stand for the freedom of their pussies — of their souls. As Noami Wolf says, a woman’s vagina is linked from her pelvis, up through her heart and into her brain. When that connection is broken her entire life suffers.

My vision for Pussybilities is to inspire each and every woman to claim back their uniqueness but also promote sisterhood connections among us. In other words, to have the flexibility and wisdom needed to know when to support one way or the other.

I stop here for now but I’ll elaborate on the topics above as soon as my inner voice tells me to do so. Thanks for reading and therefore contributing for the liberation of pussies — of all of us.